Best 10 ways wives lose their husbands’ respect 💔
Introduction: The Role of Respect in Marriage
Marriage is a sacred bond established by God, where love strengthens respect, and respect strengthens love. However, some wives subconsciously disrespect their husbands, which weakens the marriage.
In this article, we will discuss 10 ways that can make a husband unhappy, frustrated, or distant. Let’s delve deeper and make positive changes for a healthy marriage.
1️⃣ Ignoring your husband 🙉
📖 Verse: James 1:19
“Everyone, be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Am I listening to my husband or just reacting?
– Do I take his thoughts, feelings, and needs seriously?
✅ Example: When your husband shares his day’s experiences, put down your mobile and listen carefully.
2️⃣ Constantly criticizing 🗯️
📖 Verse: Proverbs 21:19
“It is better to live in the desert than with an angry and quarrelsome wife.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Am I always pointing out his weaknesses?
– Am I constantly criticizing instead of encouraging?
✅ Example: Instead of saying, “You always do it wrong,” say, “You can find ways to do it better.”
3️⃣ Comparing yourself to others ⚖️
📖 Verse: 2 Corinthians 10:12
“Those who compare themselves to others are not wise.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Am I comparing her to another husband ?
– Is this lowering her self-confidence?
✅ Example: Instead of saying, “Why can’t you be like so-and-so?”, let’s identify their positive aspects.
4️⃣ Not showing gratitude 🙏
📖 Verse: 1 Thessalonians 5:18
“Give thanks in every circumstance.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Do I appreciate his hard work, affection, and contributions
? – Have I forgotten to say “thank you”?
✅ Example: Thank your husband even for small things he does.
5️⃣ Public humiliation 🚫
📖 Verse: Ephesians 5:33
“Wives, respect your husbands.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Do I criticize my husband in front of others?
– Have I ever used words that hurt his self-esteem?
✅ Example: If he did something wrong, discuss it privately, not in public.
6️⃣ Denying your husband’s rights ⚠️
📖 Verse: 1 Corinthians 11:3
“The husband is the head of the family, just as Christ is the head of the church.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Am I rejecting His leadership?
– Am I always putting forward only my own ideas?
✅ Example: Let’s learn to make joint decisions, not dominate ourselves.
7️⃣ Creating emotional distance ❄️
📖 Verse: 1 Corinthians 7:3-5
“Husbands and wives should complement each other physically and emotionally.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Am I emotionally distant?
– Do I value physical closeness?
✅ Example: Give positive communication, affection, and time.
8️⃣ Not showing respect financially 💰
📖 Verse: Proverbs 31:11
“A wife wins the heart of her husband, and he does not lack.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Am I spending money wastefully ?
– Have I involved my husband in financial decisions?
✅ Example: Plan a budget, spend it after consulting with your husband.
9️⃣ Trying to win every fight ⚔️
📖 Verse: Rom 12:18
“As far as possible, live in peace with everyone.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Am I more interested in winning the argument than in our relationship?
– Have I ever learned to say “I’m sorry”?
✅ Example: Let’s learn to apologize sincerely and show understanding.
🔟 Rejecting your husband’s dreams and goals 🎯
📖 Verse: Isaiah 41:10
“I will give you strength, I will help you.”
🛑 Things to think about:
– Am I supporting my husband’s dreams?
– Do I respect his career or personal goals?
✅ Example: The words “You can succeed” can make a big difference.
Conclusion: Respect is the foundation of a strong marriage
Respect between husband and wife is the backbone of a marriage. By avoiding these 10 things, you can build a marriage filled with love, understanding, and respect .
👉 “Let’s respect rather than complain.”
👉 “Let’s encourage rather than criticize.”
👉 “Let’s show acceptance, not comparison.”
Final prayer:
“O God, give me the wisdom to respect my husband. Fill our marriage with love, patience, and understanding. Amen.”
