The 5 Ways to Love Your Unsaved Friends
Loving our unsaved friends is one of the most powerful ways to share Christ’s love. Instead of forcing the gospel on them, we should show love through our actions, words, and prayers. Here are five biblical and practical ways to love your unsaved friends.
1. Love Them Unconditionally
Just as Jesus loved sinners (Luke 5:32), we must love our unsaved friends without judgment.
- Be a true friend, not just someone trying to “convert” them.
- Show kindness and patience, even when they disagree with your faith.
- Be there in their struggles—help, listen, and support them.
People are more likely to listen to the gospel when they feel genuinely loved.
2. Pray for Them Constantly
Only God can open hearts to the gospel (2 Corinthians 4:4).
- Pray for their salvation (Romans 10:1).
- Ask God to soften their hearts and give them spiritual understanding.
- Pray for opportunities to share the gospel naturally.
Even when you don’t see immediate results, keep praying—God is working!
3. Live Out Your Faith
Your life should reflect Jesus so that your friends see Him through you (Matthew 5:16).
- Be honest, kind, and patient in daily life.
- Handle challenges with faith, showing trust in God.
- Avoid hypocrisy—let your actions match your words.
A transformed life is one of the most powerful testimonies.
4. Share the Gospel Wisely
Instead of preaching at them, share the gospel in love and wisdom (Colossians 4:6).
- Look for natural moments to talk about faith.
- Use personal testimonies to show how God has changed your life.
- Respect their journey—don’t pressure them but answer their questions with gentleness (1 Peter 3:15).
Sharing Christ should come from a place of love, not argument.
5. Trust God with the Results
Salvation is God’s work, not ours (John 6:44).
- Be patient—sometimes it takes years for a heart to change.
- Keep being a faithful friend, whether they accept Christ or not.
- Trust God to complete His work in them (Philippians 1:6).
Conclusion
Loving your unsaved friends means being Christlike in how you care for them, pray for them, and share the gospel. It’s not about forcing change—it’s about showing genuine, Christ-centered love and trusting God with their salvation.
Are you praying for a friend’s salvation? Keep loving them and let God do the rest!